Start Dating what to say

Dating what to say

So girls and guys must have drastically different experiences with online dating.

Do you live in Tennessee and are up for some long-distance chatting but she’s in New York and wants someone local?

Move on to someone who’s interested in people of your gender, location, age, etc.

Responding to a few items in a person’s profile will take somewhere between three and eight sentences; if you find yourself writing a six-paragraph missive, work that delete key.

Be original We can tell when your message is copied and pasted to multiple people.

“Hey gurl, luv ur pics” is not going to get a response.

More likely to get a response: a message that is directly responsive to several things in the object of your affection’s profile.

I’ve read your profile, and I think you sound nice…” …is way less engaging than this: “What!! Especially online, when women maybe a little more on-guard, opening with a comment on their physical appearance runs the risk of seeming shallow and off-putting.

Besides — if they really are that pretty they’re probably hearing that from every unoriginal guy on the site, and it Sometimes, misguided men will send out first messages that read like autobiographies.

Funny is good, but if you are not actually funny, don’t strain anything trying to be.

Straightforward and nice is infinitely better than trying to be funny and failing miserably.

More from Buzz Feed: Don't be weird So you’ve caught on that “hey wuzz up” is generally understood to be an unoriginal message. However, copying and pasting some bizarre, rambling message isn’t going to trick someone into thinking you wrote all of that for them.