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Psychology of white women dating black men

But hey, that’s cold comfort when women are putting “six feet tall, minimum” in their dating profiles and your friends all call you “Short Round”.

Seem like a tall order One of the worst things that guys can do to themselves is to get defensive about being short.

OK, before you click the back button in disgust, hear me out. We inevitably find our focus divided among the million little things that occupy our attention.

But when we feel like someone is giving us their listening instead of waiting for your turn to talk – is absurdly powerful.

The problem with this is that the sudden color change – from white to brown to blue – creates a visual interruption.

The eye doesn’t travel smoothly down your profile; the sudden change cuts you in half, truncating your torso and skewing your proportions.

If you’re not 6 feet tall or taller, then you may as well just resign yourself to a sexless life of Napoleon jokes.

Of course, short is relative; what we consider “average” height varies depending on geographic locale and someone who’s 5’6″ would consider someone who’s 5’9″ (the average for American men) to be lucky.

But my height has only been as much of a problem as I’d let it be.